Friday, October 31, 2008

Ruby Montana, Jamie Kabler and Shari Applebaum at the John Lautner/Arthur Elrod home soiree thrown by Palm Springs Life...


Michael Kilroy opened his John Lautner/Arthur Elrod home on Southridge last night to an elegant soiree hosted by the desert's magazine Palm Springs Life. Remarkable setting overlooking Palm Springs.

Saturday, October 25, 2008

We're Twisting the Night Away at The Coral Sands...

Happy Birthday To Loyal Sander and Great Friend David Staskowski of Adrian Michigan...

We celebrate this day with special significance this year. You managed to get yourself home from the hospital in record time after suffering an acute Stroke October 1st...
You have such a special light, my Dear friend. You must keep it burning bright for many years to come. I count on you. xoxoxRuby

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Precious Sander David Staskowski is finally released to return to his home from St Josephs Hospital in Ann Arbor, Michigan...

Davids birthday is on October 25th...that is Saturday.
Please light a candle for him and wish him a Happy Birthday.
David had an acute stroke that kept him in the Hospital these last few weeks...but because of the love and support of his wonderful partner/husband, Brian Brook...his friends and family...he found that core and desire to live on...What would we do without him???
I for one cherish this your first day home and am thrilled you are in Adrian for a beautiful autumn.
I love you David...and you too, Brian. xoRuby

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Gretchen Sorensen and Ruby Montana...Gretchen arrives tomorrow for her Big Takeover of The Sands

Great Piece Sent In By Loyal Sander Kim Buchanan on Obama...

Frank Schaeffer is the author of CRAZY FOR GOD-How I Grew Up As One Of The Elect, Helped Found The Religious Right, And Lived To Take All (Or Almost All) Of It Back. Now in paperback.








Obama Will Be One of The Greatest (and Most Loved) American Presidents


Frank Schaeffer

Great presidents are made great by horrible circumstances combined with character, temperament and intelligence. Like firemen, cops, doctors or soldiers, presidents need a crisis to shine.
Obama is one of the most intelligent presidential aspirants to ever step forward in American history. The likes of his intellectual capabilities have not been surpassed in public life since the Founding Fathers put pen to paper. His personal character is also solid gold. Take heart, America: we have the leader for our times.


I say this as a white, former life-long Republican. I say this as the proud father of a Marine. I say this as just another American watching his pension evaporate along with the stock market! I speak as someone who knows it's time to forget party loyalty, ideology and pride and put the country first. I say this as someone happy to be called a fool for going out on a limb and declaring that, 1) Obama will win, and 2) he is going to be amongst the greatest of American presidents.


Obama is our last best chance. He's worth laying it all on the line for.


This is a man who in the age of greed took the high road of community service. This is the good father and husband. This is the humble servant. This is the patient teacher. This is the scholar statesman. This is the man of deep Christian faith.


Good stories about Obama abound; from his personal relationship with his Secret Service agents (he invites them into his home to watch sports, and shoots hoops with them) to the story about how, more than twenty years ago, while standing in the check-in line at an airport, Obama paid a $100 baggage surcharge for a stranger who was broke and stuck. (Obama was virtually penniless himself in those days.) Years later after he became a senator, that stranger recognized Obama's picture and wrote to him to thank him. She received a kindly note back from the senator. (The story only surfaced because the person, who lives in Norway, told a local newspaper after Obama ran for the presidency. The paper published a photograph of this lady proudly displaying Senator Obama's letter.)


Where many leaders are two-faced; publicly kindly but privately feared and/or hated by people closest to them, Obama is consistent in the way he treats people, consistently kind and personally humble. He lives by the code that those who lead must serve. He believes that. He lives it. He lived it long before he was in the public eye.


Obama puts service ahead of ideology. He also knows that to win politically you need to be tough. He can be. He has been. This is a man who does what works, rather than scoring ideological points. In other words he is the quintessential non-ideological pragmatic American. He will (thank God!) disappoint ideologues and purists of the left and the right.


Obama has a reservoir of personal physical courage that is unmatched in presidential history. Why unmatched? Because as the first black contender for the presidency who will win, Obama, and all the rest of us, know that he is in great physical danger from the seemingly unlimited reserve of unhinged racial hatred, and just plain unhinged ignorant hatred, that swirls in the bowels of our wounded and sinful country. By stepping forward to lead, Obama has literally put his life on the line for all of us in a way no white candidate ever has had to do. (And we all know how dangerous the presidency has been even for white presidents.)


Nice stories or even unparalleled courage isn't the only point. The greater point about Obama is that the midst of our worldwide financial meltdown, an expanding (and losing) war in Afghanistan, trying to extricate our country from a wrong and stupidly mistaken ruinously expensive war in Iraq, our mounting and crushing national debt, awaiting the next (and inevitable) al Qaeda attack on our homeland, watching our schools decline to Third World levels of incompetence, facing a general loss of confidence in the government that has been exacerbated by the Republicans doing all they can to undermine our government's capabilities and programs... President Obama will take on the leadership of our country at a make or break time of historic proportions. He faces not one but dozens of crisis, each big enough to define any presidency in better times.


As luck, fate or divine grace would have it (depending on one's personal theology) Obama is blessedly, dare I say uniquely, well-suited to our dire circumstances. Obama is a person with hands-on community service experience, deep connections to top economic advisers from the renowned University of Chicago where he taught law, and a middle-class background that gives him an abiding knowledgeable empathy with the rest of us. As the son of a single mother, who has worked his way up with merit and brains, recipient of top-notch academic scholarships, the peer-selected editor of the Harvard Law Review and, in three giant political steps to state office, national office and now the presidency, Obama clearly has the wit and drive to lead.


Obama is the sober voice of reason at a time of unreason. He is the fellow keeping his head while all around him are panicking. He is the healing presence at a time of national division and strife. He is also new enough to the political process so that he doesn't suffer from the terminally jaded cynicism, the seen-it-all-before syndrome afflicting most politicians in Washington. In that regard we Americans lucked out. It's as if having despaired of our political process we picked a name from the phone book to lead us and that person turned out to be a very man we needed.


Obama brings a healing and uplifting spiritual quality to our politics at the very time when our worst enemy is fear. For eight years we've been ruled by a stunted fear-filled mediocrity of a little liar who has expanded his power on the basis of creating fear in others. Fearless Obama is the cure. He speaks a litany of hope rather than a litany of terror.


As we have watched Obama respond in a quiet reasoned manner to crisis after crisis, in both the way he has responded after being attacked and lied about in the 2008 campaign season, to his reasoned response to our multiplying national crises, what we see is the spirit of a trusted family doctor with a great bedside manner. Obama is perfectly suited to hold our hand and lead us through some very tough times. The word panic is not in the Obama dictionary.


America is fighting its "Armageddon" in one fearful heart at a time. A brilliant leader with the mild manner of an old-time matter-of-fact country doctor soothing a frightened child is just what we need. The fact that our "doctor" is a black man leading a hitherto white-ruled nation out of the mess of its own making is all the sweeter and raises the Obama story to that of moral allegory.


Obama brings a moral clarity to his leadership reserved for those who have had to work for everything they've gotten and had to do twice as well as the person standing next to them because of the color of their skin. His experience of succeeding in spite of his color, social background and prejudice could have been embittering or one that fostered a spiritual rebirth of forgiveness and enlightenment. Obama radiates the calm inner peace of the spirit of forgiveness.


Speaking as a believing Christian I see the hand of a merciful God in Obama's candidacy. The biblical metaphors abound. The stone the builder rejected is become the cornerstone... the last shall be first... he that would gain his life must first lose it... the meek shall inherit the earth...
For my secular friends I'll allow that we may have just been extraordinarily lucky! Either way America wins.


Only a brilliant man, with the spirit of a preacher and the humble heart of a kindly family doctor can lead us now. We are afraid, out of ideas, and worst of all out of hope. Obama is the cure. And we Americans have it in us to rise to the occasion. We will. We're about to enter one of the most frightening periods of American history. Our country has rarely faced more uncertainty. This is the time for greatness. We have a great leader. We must be a great people backing him, fighting for him, sacrificing for a cause greater than ourselves.


A hundred years from now Obama's portrait will be placed next to that of George Washington, Abraham Lincoln and Franklin Roosevelt. Long before that we'll be telling our children and grandchildren that we stepped out in faith and voted for a young black man who stood up and led our country back from the brink of an abyss. We'll tell them about the power of love, faith and hope. We'll tell them about the power of creativity combined with humility and intellectual brilliance. We'll tell them that President Obama gave us the gift of regaining our faith in our country. We'll tell them that we all stood up and pitched in and won the day. We'll tell them that President Obama restored our standing in the world. We'll tell them that by the time he left office our schools were on the mend, our economy booming, that we'd become a nation filled with green energy alternatives and were leading the world away from dependence on carbon-based destruction. We'll tell them that because of President Obama's example and leadership the integrity of the family was restored, divorce rates went down, more fathers took responsibility for their children, and abortion rates fell dramatically as women, families and children were cared for through compassionate social programs that worked. We'll tell them about how the gap closed between the middle class and the super rich, how we won health care for all, how crime rates fell, how bad wars were brought to an honorable conclusion. We'll tell them that when we were attacked again by al Qaeda, how reason prevailed and the response was smart, tough, measured and effective, and our civil rights were protected even in times of crisis...


We'll tell them that we were part of the inexplicably blessed miracle that happened to our country those many years ago in 2008 when a young black man was sent by God, fate or luck to save our country. We'll tell them that it's good to live in America where anything is possible. Yes we will.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Friday, October 3, 2008

The Remarkable Beautiful and Brilliant Cheryl Dillinger at William Holden's


Cheryl is a regular at The Sands. She is a newly wed this time around...She and Al got married in Texas this last year...Cheryl is bringing her family to The Sands this Spring...She is considering walking from the top of the Tram back to Portland this Spring on the Pacific Crest Trail. She's someone who will do it. Ruby has agreed to ship boxes...maybe Ruby will join Cheryl...

Sanders, Geri McNeil, Cee Cee Ponicsan, Ruby Montana and Claire Samaras...Lovely Palm Springs Evening...

Gregg Rapp's Fabulous William Holden House...Imported Doors to his Office Carved in Africa...


Gregg Rapp Touring Sanders, Cheryl Dillinger (on far right) Cee Cee Ponicsan (middle) and Al Estrada Berg in his fabulous South Ridge William Holden home. Holden imported these doors from Africa. Mr. Rapp, Menu engineer, uses the office for his massive cookbook collection. Ann Dee is Gregg's dog. She is a Libran sister of Ruby's.

SANDERS...DAVID STASKOWSKI...THE ONE WHO MARRIED AT THE SANDS LAST MONTH AND DID THE ROUTE 66 TOUR ON THIS BLOG IS IN THE HOSPITAL...


The sweetest, smartest, most scholarly Sander, David Staskowski, had an acute stroke on Wednesday evening and is at St. Joseph's Mercy Hospital in Ann Arbor Michigan. He will make a full recovery but this is a reminder that life is fragile. Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers as well as his wonderful partner, Brian Brock. Thank goodness the Reverend Montana married them so that Brian can actually be in the hospital room with David legally.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

GORGEOUS...BOTH THE MARBLE AND THE WOMAN...SANDER CEE CEE PONICSAN AT GREGG RAPP'S WILLIAM CODY PROPERTY ON SOUTHRIDGE....BREATHTAKING...THROUGHOUT!!


Cee Cee Ponicsan of Seattle/Sonoma...great friend to Ruby and spirit lifter...standing in front of Gregg Rapps's Marble Fireplace at SouthRidge One. This is an incredible sight.

Our Host With The Most...Gregg Rapp at His Fabulous William Cody House on Southridge

Gregg Rapp was host once again to the wonderful Guests of The Coral Sands Inn...Gregg has the good fortune of owning two properties that are phenomenal on South Ridge (The Hill that is shared by Bob Hope's legendary John Lautner property)...Thank you Gregg.

Loyal Sanders Al Estrada Berg and Cheryl Dillinger on Southridge at SR 1...